A number of you have asked me to share my writing life, and I have over the past month during my Broken Pieces Orangeberry Book Tour (click here for more). Rather than make this all about me and risk losing you all to a nap, I thought I’d share a few tips I’ve gleaned along the way from others, as well as a few of my own tips.
1) Clear the clutter. This sounds so very, very basic, but wearing many hats (mom, wife, businessperson, and writer) can make our nice, clean desks one big ole mess. Quickly. I remember reading an article about authors in TIME magazine, and they mentioned that author Jonathan Franzen has nothing on his desk but his computer. That’s IT. No phone, no pads, no paper, no books. Nothing.
2) Turn off social media. The age-old issue for any author is ‘how can I sell more books if I don’t market? How can I market if I haven’t written more books?’ and it’s a valid one. There is no easy answer (though I share multiple time-saving tips and tricks at BadRedheadMedia.com). But if we go back to basics, we wouldn’t be authors if we didn’t publish. So make time for your writing.
At one point, I was part of a promo group of writers and one of the founders used to hound me about creating a strict writing schedule and sticking to it. She harangued me for having ‘excuses’ (kids, house to clean, errands, doctor’s appointment), which frankly pissed me off. But in a way, she was right: if we want to be published, we have to create. And I didn’t have a strict schedule, because I was building my following, writing blog posts, and living a life. I had to create a schedule for my writing — though I remain flexible based on my kids’ schedule or client work.
Shutting off social (no pings) is a crucial part of each day for me now — but it takes planning. Because my business is also social media, I can’t be totally unavailable — but I can shut off the noise!
3) Walk Away. Sometimes it just doesn’t flow — for whatever reason. I hesitate to call it ‘writer’s block’ because for me, it’s just a break. You couldn’t possibly do any one thing 24/7, so when you’re unable to write well, relax. Walk away. Usually my break consists of cleaning my kitchen (ya know, where I burn stuff), or taking the kids somewhere. Do whatever works for you. And if all else fails, go for a martini. (Or Nutella, if you’re not a drinker.)
Of course, you can always look at Pinterest shots of Ryan’s abs, too.
4) Share. This is probably the most difficult task for any new author — finding people we trust who are honest enough to give us a good critique. Connecting with other authors is critical and I love social media for that. I’ve become part of a few thriving author communities and would we lost without them. But it took me awhile to find my way. I had people in my life who constantly put me down, and that was unhealthy. Learn to draw the line between an honest critique and total B.S.
This is useful because sitting alone in our offices talking to ourselves and looking at pictures of Ryan Reynold’s abs will only take us so far.
5) Sustenance. Sounds kinda dumb, but many of us (including me) tend to get right into the work and forget to eat or drink. I go for coffee and then it’s five hours later and I’m beyond starving. Keep water on your desk. Nuts or fruit. If you’re involved and don’t want to walk away, you won’t have to.
6) Stretch. When I met author Dani Shapiro at a reading in 2010, she discussed the importance of stretching. She’s really into yoga, so she writes for the morning,does yoga, and then heads back to it.
I’ve had my share of neck, shoulder, and back problems (yes, even though I’m only 29 *ahem*), and bending over a screen can only exacerbate already existing issues and even create more. I’ve got a small space in my office where I can sit on the floor, stretch, lie down for a moment, do a yoga pose, whatever. I rarely want to lose the flow, so I find that staying in the same area doesn’t break my mood, yet allows for a slight reprieve.
None of these suggestions are earthshatteringly brilliant, but I’ve found them incredibly helpful for me.
What do you do to aid in your writing? Please share below!
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